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Karissa Chen's avatar

The videos of the parents kneeling broke my heart. I feel so much sympathy for them. As you say, as our children grow they become ever more foreign and mysterious to us, and yet I'm sure no matter what, I will feel responsibility for who he becomes, will wonder if I could have done better somewhere. I cannot imagine what these parents feel - the shame, the guilt, but also a private grief that they've lost their child, a grief that they can't express publicly. To not be able to mourn your child. No matter who he became, I'm sure they still remember the little boy he was. Of course what he did was reprehensible. But it is strange to me that somehow in Taiwan culture this is the thing that happens. Does it make anyone feel better? It's good to know that it does seem like a shift is happening now though (also I hadn't realized that the mom of the little girl who was killed in 2016 is a politician! I will never forget her sobbing face on tv, her appeals not to simplify this narrative into just making it about how crazy people should be locked up and how she didn't seek death penalty. It was only a few months after I moved here and it was such a shocking thing to see happen, and see the different views expressed.)

Conversely, I feel like people could take a little *more* responsibility in the West, but there's just always so much blame deflecting.

I don't know, all of it, it really sickens me.

Leona Chen 陳文羿's avatar

I teared up reading about the parents. Thank you for this ❤️

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